Lovers Kisses & such

More photos yo. Just a few taken before a night out last weekend with friends. Unfortunately, I didn't bring my camera around with me all night so I just have a couple of silly ones to post...

including a lover's kiss photo:















Baber and I have always taken kissie face photos, but I haven't been toting the camera around like before. Glad I got one in before the year is over. ;) Here's a lovers kiss blast from the past (turn away now if you have a weak stomach):

The ever elusive Baber smile next. Can you believe it? It wasn't even begged for, he was just having that good of a night! (That photo scares me a little. Man, I love him.)

I finally claimed another piece of Jillry to keep for myself. (Blogger is being impossible today, excuse the sideways photo.)

The Locket of Love on. *sigh* Heart this one.

Off to put a little TLC on the huge pot of chili I'm cooking right now for camping this weekend. Heading to our favorite spot, Camp Livingston in Pineville for some 4 wheeling, fire building and marshmallow roasting.

Have a great weekend y'all!

xo Jill

Spooky or Kooky?

It seems like I'm always playing catch up with photos on this blog. Yet, I can't not post the Halloween pics. Usually I just throw on something I have in my closet and "make" it a costume. We actually purchased costumes this year online, and though there were a lot of alterations, it allowed me to play with a different side of my creativity which is always fun.

The Baberhusband. Samarai! (He badly wanted a sword...)


















I know, I look creepy. I'm fully aware. Mwahaha. Why didn't I pick a prettier character is beyond me. For most women, Halloween is the best opportunity to dress their sleaziest and get away with it. I end up at the farthest end of that spectrum. One year I was Dracula's bride. The blood alone would have made any man run screaming.

The Bauers' Haunted Shop. They go all out every year, fully decorating Tim's man cave with spooky decor. There's even a friend who dj's, bringing his full sound system with him. Kristy Lou walks around with a tray of goodies at one point - my favorite part of the night - whether it be jello shots or brownies, it always hits the spot.

Wynette & Mikelas, our 70's couple. Mike was dangerous with that afro. More costume photos below.

See that wig? I ordered it off Amazon and it was GROSS. After a visit to Hobby Lobby and a purchase of some fake flowers, it looked less a wad of dog hair and more like a geisha wig.

Isn't Wynette cute?

The host & hostess of the evening. See what I mean? Kristy looked beautiful and I've got a face full of white makeup and half lips. :)

The scarecrow, samarai and, err... the half man-bride. This was another creepy costume. Only Brad could play this one off. Last year he was Beetlejuice and let's just say he didn't half ass it.

That's all for now folks. I'll try to post photos of the kiddos trick or treating later.

xo Jill

Olive you, too

Last week my very first treasury made it on Etsy's front page. My second treasury, Olive you, too has been featured on the S&O blog! How exciting is that? The girls over at the S&O blog are super cute and have some other great treasuries featured as well that I'm honored to be posted with.

You can view my treasury here: Olive you, too. I have to admit, since my friend Nicole has "shown me the ropes" of treasury snagging, I've become a bit addicted. But like most things, I run my newest obsession into the ground until I've found something new to be obsessed with. Let's hope this one hangs around a while, its a great way to express creativity with other's handmade lovelies: therapy for me, advertising and support for other Etsians!

New and exciting things have been happening for Jillry as of late. Two boutiques are purchasing from Jillry in bulk and my latest Jillry home parties have been a great success. I just want to pinch myself, I can hardly believe it.

I still haven't posted Halloween photos and I also have some silly Baber photo fun to share as well. Coming soon, I promise!

Hope everyone is having a great Tuesday. Does it feel like Monday for you as well?

xo Jill

My Treasury made the front page!!!

It posted at 4 am, but hey, the front page of Etsy is the front page of Etsy... *beam*

A little catch up

A few things to share...



















Click here to check out my current treasury on etsy. It features beautiful handmade treasures inspired by fall, such as cowl neck warmers, pillows in fall colors, pumpkin shaped pottery and pretty hair pins.

Recipe Review:

So I tried out the recipe from Paula Deen and I must say, it's not what I expected. I thought *creamy* *cheesy* *rich* but it was none of the three. After tossing in some extra melted cheese and seasonings, it became better, but I'm still wishing I had cut the recipe in half - we could be eating this for a month!


A sick husband:

My husband had jury duty on Monday and Tuesday and came home to me, sick. Why I oughta... Neither of us get sick often - knock on wood - so I knew he caught something while there.

I'm a worry-wart, its my nature, but I'm amazed at how much of a mother hen I am when he gets sick. He didn't sleep much last night, so when the alarm went off at 5:40 am he immediately got up instead of snuggling me. Sad and worried, I went into Mom Mode: What does he need? How can I make it better? While he chugged orange juice I made his lunch, giving him promises of chicken noodle soup tonight. What attacks a cold better than homemade soup, right? Then a hot cup of hot chocolate for his throat and he was off to work. I only gave him a couple hours before I started texting him, calling him to see if he was better.

AM I GOING TO BE ONE OF THOSE CRAZY MOMS???? *sigh* I hope not...

That's all for now. I've got so many posts to catch up, including Halloween photos and such, so stay tuned!

xo Jill

Hey Y'all!

As you probably know by now, I love to cook. But like most, I'm stumped and bored with cooking pretty often.

I've decided to start trying out one new recipe a week, whether it be taken from the Food Network, online, or a recipe I have tucked away in one of my cookbooks. I'll be sharing my new recipes each week, along with other dinners I have planned for the week.

My husband was feeling quite generous last night and I got the remote for a good part of the evening. (Thanks again, Baber!) Paula Deen showed me a few new recipes, but the one that caught my husband's eye (or stomach) was the Beef Macaroni and Cheese recipe. (Click the recipe title to be directed straight to the Food Network, where you can print out the recipe.)


Wayne's Beef Macaroni & Cheese

Ingredients

1-pound box elbow macaroni
2 tablespoons vegetable oil
2 cups chopped green bell pepper
2 cups chopped onion
1 tablespoon chopped garlic
2 pounds lean ground beef
3 cups canned crushed tomatoes
Salt and pepper
1 teaspoon each dried basil, ground cumin, and dried oregano
2 to 3 cups grated Cheddar

Directions

Heat the oven to 350 degrees F.

Cook the macaroni according to package directions; drain and set aside. Heat the oil in a skillet; add the peppers, onion, and garlic, and saute until soft. Add the ground beef and saute until browned. Add the tomatoes, salt and pepper, to taste, and the basil, cumin, and oregano. In a large bowl, combine the macaroni and the beef mixture. Spread this mixture into a 9 by 13-inch baking dish. Top with the cheese and bake for 20 to 25 minutes, or until the cheese is lightly browned and bubbly.

Cook's Note: Ground turkey or chicken can be used in place of beef, if desired.

For the rest of the week:

• Baked Chicken Thighs seasoned simply with Tony's Chachere's along with coleslaw and green beans


• Lemon Pepper Tilapia with sauteed mushrooms, cheese & broccoli rice and spicy corn on the cob


• Chicken Fajitas


• Beef Macaroni & Cheese leftovers

If you're interested in how I make the dishes above, feel free to ask and I'll happily post.

Cooking with love,

xo Jill

Eye Candy

A couple of cozy fall items I've been eyeing lately:

Crochet Autumn Harvest Wrist Warmers by shendara

These would be perfect to wear at fall fairs with my red turtleneck, boots and jeans.






















Slouchy Beret in Cranberry by rottencupcakes

And this beautiful beret would be the perfect finish to that outfit. Maybe I should hint to my husband. Oh wait, I think I already have. ;)

More of my fall favorites here:

Grilled Fish and Vintage Necklaces

Weird title, I know. Just catching up on some things I wanted to post.

I took a photo of the redfish J grilled for my birthday. You remember, the one I posted about here?






















Isn't this the purtiest thing you've ever seen? This is my favorite of husband's dishes.

I also got an external hard drive from Baber for the laptop, perfect for downloading obscene amounts of new music for my iPod. I'll be sharing my newest downloads soon.

I just posted this necklace, one I'll surely have a hard time parting with:






















Hopefully it will go to a good home.

I've also joined PapernStitch this month. Have a looksie and let me know what you think!






Oh, one more thing: I'm doing Santa's Secrets emails starting November 1st. If you want in on secret sales, freebies, new items, and VIP coupons, comment here or email me to add you to the mailing list. JillryLove@gmail.com

That about wraps up the loose ends in my brain this evening. Thanks for your attention. :)

We have a winner!!!

Thanks to everyone who entered the giveaway I had last week on a $10 gift certificate* to my shop.

Sparkling Blueberry Earrings $12























We have a winner - Sydney Szumski, come on down! Sydney has been a regular customer of Jillry for a while now. She's a great supporter of all things Etsy, gotta love that girl!

Congrats Sydney!!

*Gift certificates of any amount are automatically paired with free shipping, even if the purchase is above the certificate amount.

Warm up on a cool night.

Click for recipe --> Baked Potato Soup

Rich, creamy and surprisingly not as fattening as you think. Made with reduced fat milk (I used fat free), low fat cheese & sour cream. Sure, the bacon will get ya, but only if you eat the whole pig.

I made this tonight, a little worried about the lack of flavor using skim milk. No need to worry, husband went back for seconds. I wonder if it was the bacon...

It was perfect for a cool night. Delicious. Enjoy!

Birthday Lovelies

Woke up at 6am. Have I mentioned I'm a morning person?

So far I've: Went for a morning walk with the Mini Monster. Visited Hobby Lobby, the post office & the bank. Painted new jewelry pieces. Treated myself to Subway & a movie for lunch. Had a lovely chat with the Avon lady & her little bebe who brought me Christmas goodies.

Tonight: chocolate chip cookie cake, ice cream & presents with the family tonight.

Tomorrow: Babers is taking me on a hot date. To do what? That is the question. :)

Off for more birthday fun. Have a great weekend everyone!

Last Day of 30

Last year I looked forward to turning 30 while my younger friends moaned about it. This year, I sort of forgot about my birthday. Has it already become "just another day"?

In the past year I've learned:

• As a thirty-something, I can't wake up in the mornings and just stretch without the possibility of pulling something.
• That the older I get, the more comfortable I am with the person I've become.
• Some of the things I hated as a kid are the same things I still hate today.
• That I hold my tongue less when people wrong me. And it feels good.
• Who my real friends are.
• That lipstick is overrated.
• Being a newlywed is everything I had hoped it would be.

Here's to the last day of being 30, and to "just another day" tomorrow. :)

Fall Weather Fun

Things are changing down south. Fall is here and hopefully to stay.

Pops (J's Dad) asked his two sons to go fishing this past Saturday. I was quite lonely but excited at the prospect of some good fish to throw on the grill at their return.

And boy did J catch a fish:



































The fish ended up being placed in the freezer for another day; we had plans with my little sis and nephew to hit Octoberfest. Unfortunately I have no photos for this as my newest motto is: enjoy the moment first, take photos second. Okay okay, I didn't want to lug around a camera for crying out loud. I needed my hands for my pockets!

Toot rode several rides and even got J to ride the Scrambler with him. Man I love that ride but it was just entirely too cold to be whizzed around at 80 mph in 40 degree weather.

Monday I made a pot of gumbo.




























This is our latest dining experience. (I caught J mid-laugh after his picture protest, isn't he cute?) Occasionally we dine at the kitchen table. We figure we may as well enjoy this for a minute - when we have children it will be the table from then on.

Since its been so beautiful out I've been working on some new projects outside. The Mini Monster loves this.















Her puppy stretches are the cutest.

Its Wednesday, we're almost to the next weekend. Hang in there friends. :)

Fleur de Lovely Earring Giveaway!

Just wanted to give everyone a heads up on a couple of great giveaways for Jillry!

The initial giveaway - my Fleur de Lovely earrings, held by Kelly of Keeping Up with Kelly.

Head on over to her place to participate!

If you choose to participate in this giveaway, I will place all participants in a drawing of my own this Saturday to win a $10 gift certificate to my shop: Jillry

To win the $10 gift certificiate, simply enter the giveaway at Kelly's blog, then come on over here and leave a message at mine.

1.) One comment noting which piece you like best from my shop gives you one entry in my drawing.

2.) Follow my blog and receive a second entry. You must show up in my "Follow Me" box to the right.

3.) Join my fan page on Facebook for yet another entry! Search "Jillry" or click on my fan box to the right.

Don't forget to leave your email address on your comments.

Good luck to those of you entering Kelly's giveaway & mine as well! Big thanks to Kelly too!

A love greatly missed

Riding in the car with the music loud in the mornings. Oh how I miss that part of working out of the home.

I don't post about things related to religion or faith or spirituality much: I'm a bit of a private person when it comes to those things. However, this morning I read the lovely Lindsey's recent blog post in which she ended with a David Crowder Band song and I thought "Where did that part of my life go?"

Dear KLove, its been two months since I've listened to you regularly. I've missed you so.

Here's one of my favorites. As in chills, play and repeat. (Scroll down and mute my music box on the bottom right first.)

Happy Monday. Enjoy.

For the Love of a Trade

Jill of Blue Serendipity Designs contacted me over the weekend. This talented lady from Ireland and I conversed on and off all weekend on how similiar we are, from our pieces, props to even our names!

We both fell in love with jewelry from each others shops and decided to trade. She mentioned her love of cajun food, so with her new Sparkling Blueberry Earrings and Earth Goddess Ring (below) I'm sending some cajun specialties with love from Louisiana! :)

The gorgeous Midnight Rendevous Necklace I'm anxiously awaiting from her shop:

























And the pieces she chose from my shop:











































The two pieces above will be relisted in my shop in the next week or so. I'm not sure if the necklace from Jill's shop is one of a kind or not, but she has other stunning pieces so go check her out.

I just love a trade...

Bessie Mae Berger, Homeless at 97, Begging on the Streets of L.A.

Her little voice just breaks my heart. I know most would think "Can't the two sons find work somewhere?" I find myself wondering the same.

Bessie Mae Berger, Homeless at 97, Begging on the Streets of L.A.

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Love the One You're With

There's no underlying tone here. I'm not saying that even if you aren't happy or in love, still love the one you're with. I'm hitting on the more obvious tone: LOVE the one you're with, and make sure they know you love them.

Baber took me on a date to one of my favorite seafood restaurants a couple of weekends ago. I dressed up, he held my hand, we talked about everything under the moon across a wooden table with beer in our hands. The most fabulous dishes were placed before us and we ooed and ahhed over them. Afterwards, he took a different route on the way home and we ended up on the grounds where we were married just 10 months ago.

It was dark out, so I struggled with being a 'fraidy cat and living in the romantic moment. Okay, so I didn't struggle, I blurted out a few times that someone was going to "get" us, but J grabbed my hand and told me not to ruin this. *snicker*

We walked hand in hand around the beautiful grounds, past the fountains and trees and lighted seating areas. Reminisced about the night we were made husband and wife. I was grinning ear to ear. My husband is spontaneous, so I never know when he's going to pull a romantical stunt on me.

My husband loves me. He doesn't send me flowers all the time, he doesn't buy me gifts. He doesn't dedicate songs to me on the radio. But he loves me, and he does show it.

When we pull in for gas at the local station he always comes out with two banana Laffy Taffys; one for me, one for him, to enjoy together. At night, J turns on my air purifier for me before I even get in the bed. He also lets me spoon him at night, even though he thinks he should be spooning me. On pizza night, he saves the middle pieces for me when we bake one of those brickhouse square pizzas. Even when I object, he still saves them for me. He always does the dishes because he knows how much I despise that chore. When he talks or brags about me to one of his friends or work buddies he always tells me about it later, knowing I would never hear it otherwise.

We should all really pay attention to what we have. Stop nit picking and hanging on what we don't have or what our loved ones don't do for us. Love is shown in so many ways, so many forms. We should appreciate these little moments, acts of affection, ways of giving.

And love the one we're with.

Happy Accident Recipe

Last week I was making our usual Lamonte family BBQ Chicken recipe in the crockpot when I decided I wanted to experiment a little. Some added pineapple chunks and bellpeppers and wallah! A happy accident that the husband and I thoroughly enjoyed.


Pineapple BBQ Chicken or Happy Accident Dish


2 large chicken breasts sliced into two thin pieces (making 4 total "breasts")
1/2 bottle bbq sauce (I used Jack Daniels Honey BBQ)
1 1/2 cup water
1 large can pineapple chunks
1 bell pepper chopped into 1/2 inch squares
salt
pepper
garlic powder
red pepper flakes
honey


Place chicken, bbq sauce and water in the crock pot. Set on low heat for 5 hours.

After 5 hours cook time, place bell pepper chunks & entire contents of pineapple can in crock pot. Add dashes of salt, pepper, garlic powder and 1/2 tbsp red pepper flakes. Cook for another hour on low.

Serve over rice. Enjoy!

Advertising Swap

So. I'm thinking of growing the blog. Watering it a little, venturing out.

For starters, I was thinking of doing an advertisement swap. Basically a trade on a 150x100 size ad for your blog, shop, or website of choice. Mine on yours, yours on mine. My sidebar could use a little of your pizzaz, don't you think?

I'm offering this free trade for exactly one month. Contact me if you want to do an ad swap. Or just contact me if you have any questions! This could be fun!

For those of you who already selflessly advertise my Jillry shop on your page - you know who you are - just send me your ad if you want to snazzy up my sidebar.

Raring to go,

xo Jill

I'm not Superwoman...

Was feeling quite low yesterday evening. After working most of the day Saturday at the bazaar and coming home to company, I was ruffled a bit with not being able to relax. Sunday I forced myself to do some much needed relaxing, but found myself getting up out of guilt... picking up and tidying, folding clothes here and there.

Monday and Tuesday I was overwhelmed with orders and a messy house. Undone chores and to-dos piling up. Went for my usual walks in the evening with Mini and friend, came home to showers and swollen feet.

I felt old and exhausted. I lost it a little.

Asking for help is hard for me. I want to be able to do it all. Though I want help, I don't want to ask for it. I feel since I can see the work needing to be done, that others should be able to see it as well. Eventually the laundry piles up and I'm in tears because I just can't fold another stitch.

Happens to the best of us, right?

Today I took it easy. My hair is in bed-head effect still and I don't care. I watched Pride & Prejudice this morning - not while making jewelry, just laid up on the couch and watched it, uninterrupted. That two hour "me time" did me a world of good.

This morning my husband left me a message that made the day even better. Received it while making his pasta salad for lunch the rest of the week. It read: Thanks for taking care of me. I really do appreciate it even though I might not show it much. I love you soooo much. Can't wait to come home and see my little family.

Yeah, I love him.

The point of all this? *deep breath* Ask for help. As women, its hard enough to ask... let alone ask for the same help all the time. Still, the resentment will catch hold of your heart if you don't.

And besides, we all need a break sometimes. Take one. You deserve it.

What I've been up to today

*rubbing hands together*

If I could eat these beads, I would.

Hungry? Lots of fresh jewelry here: www.JillryLove.com

Be sure to check back later this week for a giveaway that's way past due!

An Amazing Weekend

The Bazaar on Saturday was a-ma-zing! (Yes, I'm a Rachal Zoe clone this A.M.) Here are a couple of booth shots:




















I've been feeling very protective of my work lately so I feel vulerable posting these pics. However, there's so much GOOD in this business.... so much support, friendship, and just plain JOY that it overrides the aggravation of copycats.

The bazaar was a huge success. I went home feeling straight up giddy and with a much lighter jewelry case! Now I must get my butt in gear for the parties and shows I have coming up. Where does hubby keep his energy pills again....

Below is a photo of my new favorite piece! I RARELY keep anything from my collection for myself and I finally put my foot down on this one. It all started years ago when customers began purchasing items off my neck, which I think is a hoot! Still, it made most of my personal creations temporary. Someone asked for this one yesterday and I love it so much that I was able to say NO. Eat your heart out! ;)


















The bazaar was located just one town over from my town and I saw so many of my old friends from high school. It was so nice to visit with them, to catch up from the years lost and see their creativity. Oh and I felt very much like a princess that day: J dropped me off in the morning, but not before helping us set the bulk of the booth up and then coming back to tear it down that evening. Didn't break one nail. ;)

Sunday was filled with a whole lot of nothing, which we enjoyed like you wouldn't believe. It rained all day so we spent most of the day inside, snuggling in for a small nap, watching football, reading a book a regular customer lended me - Hi Christy!! - and I even did a little tidying in the craft room. A much needed break.

How was your weekend? Hope it was happy as mine. :)

Much love & hugs. And of course, Happy Monday!

Finding Happy in the Small Things

This morning started off great. My calendar now has only 2 more spots open for jewelry parties or shows, which makes me feel comfortable financially. The only downfall to this business is the worry of the month to come. Sure, we'll pay our bills, have money to save and play with, but I have goals for myself and I am affected emotionally if I don't make that goal. No one wants a depressed artist living with them, trust me.

I thought I'd make a list of things that make me happy TODAY. Things that are small, that may be insignificant to others but that make me giddy and warm inside. I'd love to read what makes you happy, so please feel free to post yours in the comment section!

Finding Happy

1. Waking up in a freezing room with a personal heater in the bed. (That heater being the hubby.) Makes me want to snuggle all day!

2. Morning showers. There's a large window on the wall of my shower which is frosted, so we have no curtain on it. The sunlight pours in that window in the mornings, so much so that I don't even turn a light on in the bathroom. Its just so pretty and starts my day off right.

3. Being on a "diet" and actually having CHOICES in the house. There's nothing worse than trying to eat healthy and having to pass up the toaster strudels for plain old toast. This morning I had PB on wheat with sliced banana and honey. How could I not be happy after a breakfast like that?

4. When J gets off work early. Now that I work from home, I can take off for a spontaneous outing with him. Yesterday he came home in the early afternoon, so we had a little adventure on a new trail to the river. There wasn't a soul out, except for three large white egrets that would perch until we got closer, moving up the river and settling until we approached them again. I love that we can do things like that together now, during a time of the day when its quiet.

5. My crockpot. Simply enough, I love the thing. :)

Hope everyone is having a great day! Again, please share your happy things.

Silent Auction for a Good Cause

Hi friends! FabulousFunFinds is holding a silent auction to help a family in need. Please take a moment to stop by and view the *fabulous* items for auction by amazing artists. You can even bid on my TimeKeepers Necklace. All proceeds go to this family in need. Thanks for your time and for helping out.

A Southern Breakfast

Lately J and I have been eating our go-to breakfast in the mornings: Lucky Charms & Cinnamon Toast Crunch. Sunday morning I felt like treating us...

to BACON. Mmmm....

That particular morning I made a frittata for us. If you haven't made one before, its really easy. Just think breakfast pizza, but without the crust. Its pretty much an omlet if you want to get technical, but without all the flipping.

Bacon Egg & Cheese Breakfast Frittata

3 piece thick sliced bacon

5 eggs

1/2 cup shredded cheddar

dash of hot sauce

1/2 tablespoon pepper

1/2 tablespoon salt

1/2 tablespoon onion powder

Turn oven on to bake at 350 degrees.


Chop bacon into bite size pieces and place in skillet on low to medium heat to fry. Keep an eye on bacon, tossing it around the pan occasionally to cook evenly.


In bowl, whisk eggs. Toss cheese in, seasonings and a few dashes of hot sauce.


Once bacon is cooked, pour egg mixture into pan. Turn heat off and place skillet in oven. Let bake in oven for 10-15 minutes, checking with a fork. The frittata should be firm. Be sure not to over cook, as the eggs will be rubbery.

For Frittata Flare: Normally I have all kinds of randomness in my fridge to toss in our frittatas. Bell peppers, mushrooms and onions are great in a breakfast frittata, and even better with salsa on top after its done. If you prefer something with a crust, take a handful of croutons and crush in sandwich bag. Toss these in with the egg mixture and it will give the frittata more of a tasty crunch. Love mexican? Crunch leftover taco shells into egg mixture and add some cumin to the mix. Top with sour cream, cilantro & salsa.

And yes, those are grits on the side of our frittatas. Just trying to hold up the Southern stereotype. ;)

Enjoy!

A beautiful day for a SALE!

The weather is so nice out that I'm taking frequent breaks from finishing up orders and pieces for my fall line to warm my face in the sun. The Mini Monster is loving these breaks as well!

So, in celebration of this beautiful Friday, I'm having a sale!

10% off all purchases made today in my shop: http://www.jillrylove.com/

Just check out with the items you want until you come to the point of payment. I'll send you a revised invoice reflecting the 10% off discount.

A few more hours of creating and I'm off to primp. I've got a hot date with the husband tonight. ;)

Happy Shopping!!

xo Jill

The Learning Curve

Um, hi. *dusting off blog cobwebs* I know my posts have become sparratic and practically non-existent these days, but its for a good cause. :)

I'm learning a lot these days since I've plunged into my jewelry business full time. I've got a lot to say, so brace yourself.

I've learned that I am definitely a creature of habit, of schedule. One who needs order and routine. Yesterday I all but growled at my poor husband for coming home early. The weird thing is... I LOVE when he comes home early. Its quiet in this home apart from the tv in the background and Mini puppy snores. He comes in with a smile and kisses for me, and yet I felt irritated. Felt, torn by it.

I had gotten into a routine. 6 am wake up, getting him off to work with lunch and goodbye hugs. Onto computer to process orders. My work day continues and by 2pm I'm doing housework and prepping for dinner.

I loved having him come home around 5-6ish and sniffing the air full of comfort food aromas. Commenting on how pretty I look today and how nice the house looks. With him coming home early recently, its thrown off my schedule. He's in before the housework, before dinner, before I've primped. I feel less successful because of this and I know that's silly. Its like the mystery is gone. I don't have a magic wand anymore.

Baber, I'm soorryy. This is me apologizing, again. Most of you know my husband reads my blog. And you know he loves when he's the subject. (What man wouldn't??) Though I apologized for my irritable mood yesterday and this morning, I thought a public apology could do nothing but fluff his ego, right? For him, its probably the equivalent of coming home with flowers when he's saying sorry.

So there. I love you Baber. Come home early today. Please? :)

This morning I put housework first. I just took all my nice work slacks off hangers and folded them to be put away. To bring my jeans and shorts in the front. It made me smile. I'm learning that I am a lot more colorful than I thought I was, now that I don't have to pull on my black slacks every day.

Another thing I realize is that while I may not have the drama I had to deal with at my past jobs, there will always be negativity. For instance, in the world of crafts, there are lots of copycats out there. And some are so obvious. It just.... makes me really sad that some people out there call themselves artists and yet cannot come up with their own original ideas. Aren't they ashamed?

Last but not least, I've learned that just because I'm at home now doesn't mean I'm not busy. Some people think this is a joy ride. Like some think SAHMs just sit at home and watch soaps... So not true. I know their days are filled with chores, child care, errands, meals and more. Its a busy lifestyle but its worth it. I'm up before sunrise every morning and some days I work up until bedtime. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE it and wouldn't trade this blessing for anything, but I am actually working harder than I was at my office job.

I am less obsessed with my body now. No skinny chics around whining about how faattt they are, how they need to lose weight. I'm no longer comparing myself. And while I'm less fat-free food conscious, I'm exercising more.

Grocery shopping no longer feels like a chore. J hasn't been to the dreaded Walmart in a month and he's loving it.

I'm generally happier. Floating even on some days. Being creative is like a high for me. I was scared I couldn't do it on command, but I've learned that's just a challenge.

Things even out. Life stays balanced if you work at it. I'm learning something new every day about myself, my husband, my family. Who's behind you, really supporting you. Who you thought were friends, but who really aren't.

I'm getting there... and I'm sure there will be more posts like this to come. :)

Long Weekends & Serious Randomness

I hope everyone had a great long weekend. We sure did. Ours included:

Lotsa jewelry orders received. Woot.
Great friends.
Strawberry margaritaness.
Riding on the river on my lil bro's Teryx.
Baber silliness
Big bowls of chili with loved ones.
Maw Maw sneaking peppermints in J's candy stash (cuz he loves them so).

This morning I got a request for custom boutineers for a wedding. Wowza! I'm stoked to try my hand at this. I've been doing bridal jewelry for years, but boutineers? And the chic is super quirky but stylish with her good taste, so I am going to have fun with this. One word: peacock feathers. Oh shoot, that's TWO words...

Speaking of weddings, I'm currently doing bridesmaid and bridal jewelry for two fabulous ladies. I'll post pics soon!

Is anyone up early enough to appreciate VH1 in the mornings? I MISS videos!! VH1 has them on for a good part of the morning.

My craft room is getting spruced up. J set up the new computer last night while I tried my best at organizing. I'm thinking shelves, window boxes, a new table, maybe some wicker baskets. Anyone want to share their organizing tricks?

Alright, let me get busy. I just felt like popping in to say hi.

Hi. And cheers to a short work week!!

Shh... Can you hear it?

Its the sounds of another happy morning.

The clink of my spoon against my pretty blue cereal bowl, filled to the brim with Lucky Charms. The mini puppy sighing as she naps in her bed. The tap tapping of my nails on the keyboard. The aquarium's trinkling water noises.

The only thing that would make this morning better is having my Baber home. To eat cereal beside me; its our weekend ritual now. To try to kiss me before I've brushed my teethies while I fuss and duck.

I miss him. He's been working so hard lately on this new project at work. Every morning I wake with him before the sun is up. I pretend its to make his lunch, today with pineapple chunks and turkey and cheese sammiches and lots of sweet snacks for his sweet tooth. But mostly, I wake early to see more of him, to get a few more cuddles in, a couple more hugs in, one more kiss in.

Everything happens for a reason... I hear this running through my head over and over these days. I was laid off twice in two years at two different jobs due to lack of work in my field. Couldn't help but to think that this was a sign. I had been much busier than usual with my jewelry, so I went for it.

Financially, we knew things would be different for a few months so I have been careful with groceries, combining all my errands in one day to reduce gas use, etc. The week I'm laid off, the contractor of the crew J is working with brings him an ice chest full of specialty meats, to thank him for his work. My parents bought seafood from a man at Daddy's work and gave everyone in the family shrimp as a treat just days before I was laid off. J's parents sent us home with some chops as well.

I don't have to buy meat for a month.

And J is working serious overtime these days. I miss him around, to make me laugh and love me, but I know we need his overtime right now. And I appreciate him so much, how he's working his butt off to provide for us. Not that I'm not providing, its just that he's going to be the big bread winner for now while my business is building. I just can't help but feel like things really do happen for a reason. And that God works in mysterious ways.

Enough of that. I'm feeling quite thoughtful this morning but I must stop before I get weepy. These days a Pampers commercial can send me into tears.

Hope you all have a relaxing long weekend. I'm off to enjoy the sounds of morning a little bit longer...

Beading Up a Storm!

Life is grand. *sigh* Here's what I've been up to lately: (scroll down for specials at JillryLove.com!)

To kick off a brand new start at Jillry, I'm offering two specials:

BOGO sale on earrings: Buy one pair of earrings, get the second pair half off.

OR

10% OFF entire purchase of $25 or more!

Either contact me for a revised invoice or I will reimburse your discount via Paypal. Questions? Just ask!

xo Jill

May I have your attention please!

At the request of friends, I am posting about my new FULL TIME business venture: Jillry.

Yes, you heard right! I am finally devoting all of my attention on my jewelry business. After 13 years of jewelry making, this day has finally come. I can hardly believe it, I just want to pinch myself!!!

Screeeeeech! Hold up a second. I was prodded by the beautiful Lindsey to tell my story. So, grab a coffee, tea, or whatever choice of caffeine you may have and have a seat with me.

All my life I've sort of bounced from job to job. I graduated from LSU in Fine Arts with a concentration in Graphic Design. My senior year I was contacted by a local photographer/graphic designer who wanted me to join his company as soon as I graduated. It felt like a dream come true. Two years later and I was twiddling my thumbs on the job. Graphic design is a very competitive field and the work just wasn't there.

I moved on to an association management firm where I managed associations and planned their conferences. Stayed there two years. Learned a LOT including patience and self worth. I learned not to ever let anyone talk down to you, no matter how much higher up on the totem pole they are from you. I also met a lot of dear, dear friends that I still stay in touch with to this day. One I call my BFF. One strong gal helped me find my spiritual side. You get the point.

Bounce, bounce and I ended up being administrative assistants to real estate agents. I loved the organization part, I was bored to tears with the rest. Exactly two weeks ago (on a Wednesday) my boss called me into his office at 4:30pm. Told me he was sorry, but he had to let me go. Again, I was in a situation where the business just wasn't there. (Damn economy.) I was told he admitted he felt sick letting me go. Which of course made me feel a tiny bit better... :)

The past few weeks I've been on the job search, but to be honest I wasn't seeing anything that was setting me on fire. While I was submitting my resumes, I was doing so half-heartedly. In the meantime, I was home doing what I love best: making jewelry and NESTING.

Man can this woman nest. J was walking in the door every evening to a fragrant home with dinner on the table, our surroundings clean and tidy, laundry done and I would even get a wild hair and take the trash out - eh hmm, HIS job ladies!

Monday my friend Michelle texted me, telling me to bug the lady she works with who I sent my resume to the week before. So, I did. The lady told me there were two job opportunities, but that I had to do some testing first. She sends me 30+ miles into town to "test", fill out a gazillion forms and watch a stinking video. I was there for over 2 hours.

Needless to say, I was exhausted and antsy to get home when I was done. Driving home, I thought about this possible job opp. Every single bone in my body was screaming NOOOO!!! Don't do it!! How can I not? I would sass back at myself. I have to get a job. But I don't want another desk job!! Yes, I'm crazy like that.

About ten minutes of dreaming and I had my mom on the phone. I always call her when I need to talk things out, find clarity and get an opinion that matters. She was excited and supported the idea I had of trying to work on my jewelry business full time. She even offered to help me when I got busy!!

The second I walked in the door I went straight to my ledger, worked on numbers until it made sense. I. Can. Do. This. I thought, my heart soaring.

Two hours later dinner is cooked and I'm nervously waiting on J to get home so I can "present" my idea to him. He shows up, gives me my kisses and heads for the shower. I can hardly wait to sit down to dinner to tell him! I make our plates, head toward the table and KNOCK KNOCK KNOCK.

You have GOT to be kidding me. My sis and nephew have stopped by for a visit. We eat dinner while chit chatting and J turns his head to me and says: So how was your job thing today?

I squirm in my seat a little. Can we talk about it after company leaves? I ask. I love my sister and nephew, but at this point I was considering physically picking them up and tossing them out the door. They left soon after my comment.

When I did tell J he seemed very tentative... he didn't show any emotion but said he felt that if I could make it work, then great. I could always go back to work if it didn't, right?

I tried not to let it get me down. I knew in my heart that I could make it work.

The next morning I received 3 orders before 10am. I was sure to text him about it. Later in the day I received a text from him stating that while he realizes he doesn't show it, he's excited and happy for me.

And now we're here. :) Today was my second day on the job and I am crazy in love. I was meant to do this. I've been dreaming about opening my own boutique one day and it actually feels doable at this point.

So that's it! Here I am, sitting in my pajama pants in a clean, uncluttered house with a pot of red beans and rice on, blogging my little heart out. Next I'll package up all my orders for the day. Maybe I'll create more new items, or work on the custom orders I have waiting for me. I am my own boss. Ahhhh!!!!

There's so much more to say, but I'm going to close shop for now. I have some creating to do. *beam*

xo Jill

Wake Up Mama & Daddy!

A peek at what we get to wake up to every morning.

(She's not being her usual self in this first attempt video. We believe she's camera shy.)

Music Share Monday

This morning I threw a curveball at you guys:

What song(s) trigger a memory for you? I really enjoyed reading about your memories and the songs that brought them to life.

I had a hard time thinking of one song that really stood out for me. The song(s) that kept popping into my head are ones that bring memories of my parents back in the day.

Journey, and specifically the song Faithfully brings a memory from a very young age of my mother and father dancing in the den. I remember sitting indian style, my legs tucked under my nightgown before bed while the old radio was playing. I can see my mom and dad dancing; my daddy being silly and making my mom giggle.

One more: Rascal Flatts The Broken Road. This song... It is everything I feel about the journey of my life and J's life before we became a couple. We've known each other since we were 15 years old, crushed on each other, loved each other's company and humor. Since high school, we've been in and out of each other's lives. Making our mistakes, learning, growing, finding out what we want out of life and finally meeting somewhere in the middle along the broken road. Just listen to the lyrics - I can't without choking up.

My picks this week - yes, I gathered them up! These are all from my feel-good music selection.

Bloc Party – I Will Remember
Santigold – Lights Out
Muse – Starlight
Silver Sun Pickups – Lazy Eye
Jack’s Mannequin – The Resolution

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Michelle

Heart Shaped Box (cover of Nirvina)- Amy Lee
The Animal in Me - Motley Crue
There for You - Flyleaf
I Feel it All - Feist
Hear Me Out - Frou Frou

The song that triggers a memory: Right Here Waiting by Richard Marks.

In Michelle's words: When David was over seas for work, I would listen to that song over and over again. I would call him and play it...I even emailed him the lyrics. I cried myself to sleep many nights playing that song. We had only been dating about 6 months when he left for Africa. And I was right there waiting for him when he got off that plane. The moment he stepped of that plane that song started playing in my head as he walked towards me in slow motion. I knew at that moment that he would be the man I would marry. On our wedding day, as I was standing there in my big white dress and veil, the doors opened and I saw him standing on the other end of the asle. Our eyes met and he had that very same look on his face as he did the day he stepped of that plane. I didn't see anything else and neither did he...I will never forget the look in his eyes. Later when we were looking at wedding pictures he told me he didn't even remember seeing my daddy walking me down the isle!

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Christie

The song that triggers a memory (In Christie's words): Such a question for a Monday morning! So I'll just say that the self title album, in general, by Third Eye Blind, has huge memories for me. We listened to that, along with Korn, Dr. Dre, and Eminem coming home Highway 101 from California with our friend, Paul. It was the longest drive of our life, but we talked the whole time about everything. This cd was playing when we were driving along the ocean, and we decided to pull over because the moon looked like it literally was going to fall into the ocean, and the ocean was so close to the road. We played in the water, leaving the doors to the car open and listened the the music. It was peaceful and I don't think I've had another moment like that again.


Butthole Surfers - Pepper
Radiohead -High and Dry
Aqualung - Brighter Than Sunshine
Staind: Outside, So Far Away, Right Here Waiting
Franz Ferdinand - Do You Know Girls
Metric - Help, I'm Alive


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Jodi

Augustana - Hey Now
The Sundays - When I'm Thinking About You
Liz Phair - Friend of Mine
Kalan Porter - True Colors

Song that triggers a memory (In Jodi's words): Rachmaninoff Theme from Paginini - saw the movie Somewhere in Time with my fiancé at the time. I loved this classical music that was woven throughout the movie. The credits rolled by so quickly that I couldn't get the entire title so he went up to the projection booth and asked them to let us see the title. They took the lens of the camera and used it to magnify the words so we could write it down. I wanted it in our wedding but we couldn't find the music so a family member handwrote the music so it could be played. Subsequently we named our daughter after the main character in the movie.

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Roxanne

What music triggers memories (In Rox's words): Yesterday, I was in a downloading frenzy, as our 20th wedding anniversary is coming up and I've been reflecting on all the music that reminds me of my hubby...stuff we've listened to over the years. I know I always bag on the boom-chang music, but I have always loved dancing with him, two stepping, old time waltzes, you name it.

This is a sampling of what I downloaded.

I'm Not Strong Enough To Say No - Blackhawk
Headin' West - Dan Seals (We listened to this album when we first got together)
Fast Movin' Train - Restless Heart
Some Fools Never Learn - Steve Wariner
Where've You Been - Kathy Mattea
Sold (The Grundy County Auction) - John Michael Montgomery (OMG I get dizzy just THINKING about dancing to this one!)
When I'm Away From You - The Bellamy Brothers (I could do a whole blog post about what this song does to me...)
20 Years Ago - Kenny Rogers (This is the first song we ever danced to)

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Kelly

Unkle Bob- Swan
Leeann Rimes- What I Cannot Change
Tegan and Sara- Dark Come Soon
Mandy Moore- Gardenia
Lifehouse- Storm

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I just have to say that Sara B's song Gravity has been in my head since the dance Kayla & Kupono did on addiction on SYTYCD. The dance was breath-taking and brought tears to my eyes it was so moving.... that song, I feel, was what made the choreography that much more powerful.

If you wanna hear it pronto, its playing on my blog ipod now...

Keep remembering.

xo Jill
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My bubble

I'm generally a pretty happy person. Mornings are my thing, so I usually wake up picking around with my husband and mini monster puppy. I find joy in cooking, tidying and - *gasp* - even laundry. Lately nesting is all I want to do.

Yesterday J and I had lunch with the parents at this great lil pizza joint. I am now in heart with that little place because of a small yet highly significant conversation J and I had there about a month ago. Yes, I can make even hole-in-the-wall pizza joints sentimental these days...

At Home Depot later, we tried to make sense of paint colors for our kitchen. Purchased a funky lamp for the den and some outdoor solar lights for the flower beds. Going home and putting everything together and in their new places felt awesome. It made me HAPPY.

I then happily grilled steaks and made julienned potatoes while my hard working hubbers relaxed on the couch. Worried a little when he ate less than I, but let it go when he called me outdoors to look at the night sky. Pink cotton candy clouds floating along the dark blue and it was so beautiful.

Life is good, I thought. Its been my mantra for over a month now.

Mini took off after the neighbor's cat for the 148th time. J hollered at her to come back and I shrugged. She'll come back eventually, I said, not bothered in the least. This usually bothers the tar outta me and I'm sure to give her the stink eye and cold shoulder when she misbehaves. Instead I shrugged it off.

What's that about?

*sigh* So, my point. Is there just so much happiness in the world? Will this go away? Can I keep it for a little while longer? And most importantly, how in the world can it get any better??

I think it will. I just hope it doesn't burst this lovely bubble I've been living in.

Music Share Monday

Evening ladies!

First of all I must make a couple comments about this week's music choices.

Christie's music selections -High five on Sir Mix A Lot! And Landslide? Dear to my heart. The first time I heard that song I knew it would be the song I danced with my daddy to at my wedding.

I'm always amazed at how Kell is one step ahead of me on songs. I had Jordin Sparks on my list this week and wondered" #1 - Am I too old to listen to Jordin Sparks? and #2 - Is it silly that I like her new song Battlefield? I don't watch, and due to a singing phobia cannot watch, American Idol. SO, I don't hold that against her, but just knowing she was on it makes me feel a little lame for liking her music. However, Kelly is one cool chic and therefore it is confirmed to be COOL to listen to J. Sparks.

Jodi - seriously? Your music is downloaded onto my iPod every.single.week.

And now for my choices:

Stevie Ray Vaughn - Pride & Joy
Sarah McLaughlin - Silence
Christina Milian - Dip It Low
Def Leppard - Love Bites
Maxwell - This Woman's Work

A quite spastic mix of music, if I do say so myself. Pride & Joy is me and J's song and evokes serious kissie-faced-ness; Silence gives me chills every time I play it; Dip It Low makes me want to run (have you ever SEEN THIS VIDEO??); Love Bites is just awesome hair band goodness; and This Woman's Work isn't nearly as strong unless you watched the choreography made for it on SYTYCD (recent episode) . Tear.Jerker.

And now for your picks this week:

Jodi

T-Pain - Freeze
A Fine Frenzy - Lifesize
Marc Broussard - Gavin's Song
Missy Higgins - Scar
Sara Bareilles - Everyday Stranger

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Kelly

Keri Hilson- Knock You Down
Jordin Sparks- Battlefield
Ani Difranco- You Had Time
Gomez- How We Operate
Roisin Murphy- Ruby Blue

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Christie

Stevie Nicks
- Crystal
- Landslide

Queen
-Somebody to Love
-You're My Best Friend
-Another One Bites the Dust
-Under Pressure

Poe
-Hello
-Beautiful Girl

Sir Mix-A-Lot SEATTLE REPRESENT!!!!!!!!!!!
-My Posse's on Broadway
-Buttermilk Biscuit's
-Squaredance Rap

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Thanks for participating!

Dance all night.

xo Jill

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If you want to participate in Music Share, simply shoot me an email at blueeyez055@aol.com (or leave a comment with your email) and I'll put you on the mailing list. Every Monday morning I send out an email prodding you for your newest favorites. Simply reply - to me only - with your 5 songs and I'll include them in my Monday Music Share post.
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